Last year we said goodbye to our dog Angus. Angus was in our lives for over 15 years. Through highs and lows. Libby Smillie, a friend and Civil Celebrant, helped us to say goodbye the right way. We gathered together with friends and family in the garden, shared stories, broke bread and planted flowers and a tree so that we could remember him. Libby shared some words and led us in ceremony of remembrance of our own design.
In In times of grief and loss, finding solace and ways to honour the memory of our loved ones becomes essential. One meaningful and enduring tribute is to cultivate a garden of remembrance, adorned with flowers that symbolize their presence and spirit. In this article, we explore five flowers with profound symbolism and sentimental value, each offering a unique way to commemorate and remember those who have passed away. By planting these flowers, we can create a living tribute, a tranquil space where we can connect with cherished memories and find solace in the beauty of nature.
Forget-Me-Not
As the name suggests, the Forget-Me-Not flower (Myosotis) holds deep significance in memorial gardens. Its delicate blue blossoms symbolise enduring love and remembrance. Planting these flowers serves as a gentle reminder of the cherished memories shared with the departed loved one.
Rosemary
Rosemary (Rosmarinus officinalis), known for its aromatic leaves and delicate flowers, carries a strong association with remembrance and fidelity. In ancient traditions, it was often used in funerals and commemorative rituals. The presence of rosemary in a remembrance garden not only evokes nostalgia but also brings a sense of clarity, comfort, and connection to the past.
Lily
The elegant and serene Lily (Lilium) is a classic choice for remembrance gardens. Symbolizing the restoration of innocence and purity of the departed soul, lilies evoke a sense of peace and offer solace during times of mourning. The variety of lilies available, such as the white Stargazer Lily or the Asiatic Lily, allows for personalisation and selection based on individual preferences and symbolism.
Violet
Violets (Viola) are delicate flowers known for their vibrant colours and gentle fragrance. They are often associated with humility, faithfulness, and everlasting love. Planting violets in a remembrance garden not only adds beauty and grace but also serves as a heartfelt tribute to the enduring bond shared with the departed loved one.
Sunflower
Sunflowers (Helianthus) are renowned for their vibrant yellow petals and their ability to turn towards the sun. In the context of remembrance gardens, sunflowers symbolise adoration, loyalty, and the uplifting power of the human spirit. These tall and striking flowers serve as a powerful reminder of the joy, resilience, and enduring legacy of those we have lost.
Creating a garden of remembrance, adorned with symbolic flowers, is a meaningful way to honour and remember loved ones who have passed away. Whether it's the delicate Forget-Me-Not, the aromatic Rosemary, the serene Lily, the humble Violet, or the vibrant Sunflower, each flower carries its own unique significance and offers solace and comfort in times of grief. As we tend to these blooms, we nurture a living tribute that celebrates cherished memories and provides a serene space for reflection and connection with our departed loved ones.
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